Mar 30, 2010

Because you're there for me too...

Yesterday was a day where I felt remembered and it wasn't even my birthday. Normally I'd brush off the attention but with the fun that I had, it couldn't go by without being noticed. With the daily grind of work, there's plenty of isolation between my friends and I. It's not like I'm still in school or working in a place where my work friends become my circle of friends. So the Lakers were in town yesterday, and I realized how automatic it was for everyone to know that I'd be in the building. The texts asking where I was sitting started to pour in. I received some 'have fun' texts and some really made my night. Trash talking texts even gave me a smile. There was no better message than the one Brian sent after the Lakers loss to the Hornets:
"Don't feel bad, the spurs lost to the nets [worst team in the NBA]"

I literally laughed out loud. The Lakers-Hornets game wasn't the event that I thought it would be when I first bought the tickets. I imagined myself to be there with someone else and the night to end with a victory for the Lake Show. I understand things happen and plans can change but I'll always wonder how it would have been the way I wanted. Now that my concert/sporting event streak for this part of the year is over, I'd really like to thank TuVy, BaoNgoc, and Nhung for being great and helping a friend in need and adding new adventures to my resume. You ladies have helped turn something difficult to something worth remembering.

Mar 27, 2010

YouTube: Broadcast yourself

Bored on a Saturday afternoon, in the comfort of my living room with Looney Tunes on one TV and Planet Earth on the other. Thought I'd share with you some videos that I've come across on YouTube. Enjoy and be sure to subscribe...


Cathy Nguyen - Baby (Justin Bieber cover)


Carly and Ben Ash - Telephone (Lady Gaga Cover)
It's like she doesn't breathe


Cathy Nguyen - 4 song medley [Pretty Wings, Empire State of Mind, Watcha Say, Nothin on You covers]


JRA, AJ Rafael, Andrew Garcia - Replay [Iyaz cover]

April showers bring May flowers

The madness that is March is coming to and end. I look back and pat myself on the back for all the amazing things that happened: Race for the Cure, Pandas championship, cake decorating, scrapbook-making, birthday celebrations [Loan, TuVy, Anna, Tap, Julieann, and Shelly], the fantastic friends, John Mayer, Lakers v Hornets etc...

As we move on to April, let's see what I have in store for myself...

  • ACFBR Championship on Easter Sunday. KCCBR v. CCCBR @ 4 P.M.

  • Work getting busy at Pennington Biomedical, LSU PMAC, and Turner Industries

  • LSU Baseball getting into full swing

  • Mariners making their run to the postseason since 2000

  • Kobe and the Lake Show begin their drive to five with the first round playoffs

  • Birthday celebrations from BR to the coast

  • Taxes Taxes Taxes

  • Pandas championship gear comes in

  • Getting ready for my parent's anniversary and Charlie's birthday (all on May 2)



I'm sure there's more that I'm overlooking but at least I'm keeping busy, right?

Mar 26, 2010

Everyday Reminder

Every time I have an urge to be the person I was in January, I think about the scars and hurt that drape across my heart and my arm. The days in bed and appointments are still in my mind. I think about the people around me who have been in and out my life. The old friends and new friends. The ones who voiced their opinions and the ones who who motivated without saying a word. The thing is, it's not January anymore. It's March turning into April. Time to make something happen right? If I don't, who will?

"Let the best of your today be the worst of your tomorrow."

Jay-Z f/ Mr. Hudson - Young Forever

Mar 25, 2010

Shot to The Heart

In an attempt to have music run parallel to my life, here's a song that I tend to listen to a lot whenever I'm using my iPod. Great song and a surprisingly good job by Rick Ross

Lil Wayne f/ Rick Ross - Shot to the heart (Remix)



Lyrics to Lil Wayne's verses:.

Since I lost you Im lost too,
playa feelin like he at the bottom like a horseshoe,
sorry for the trouble I put u and your heart through,
God knows that I do anything for her part 2.
Ought to be praying for the day you come back to me,
saying that you forgive me, give me another chance,
I'm needing it like a kidney,I dont wanna advance,
give me back her hands, give me back her touch I dont ask for much,
but I f*cked up , I know f*cked up, I admit I f*cked,
but everybody f*cks up, now this other playa lucked up,
tellin me & crew dont give a f*ck..cause ah, we from New Orleans,
she was from Georgia, she was my down chic, I was her soldier,
I was her gangsta, She was my shoulda,
You were the pistol to my holster BANG!

You forgot about the house, you forgot about the ring,
I remember everything, I just wanna hear you sing,
I remember the love right after the fight,
you cant tell me you dont remember those nights,
and If I would cry, you would cry twice
to me you are the brightest star under the sunlight,
see take away my title, take away stripes,
you give me back my girl and you give me back life...
give me back my girl and you give me back life,
see this is just a nightmare so I blink twice,
open up my eyes hopin she be in my sights,
I remember I wish I could bring it back,
what she mean to me is what I mean to rap

Mar 24, 2010

The Real Life Hitch

In the relationship aspect of my life, I've seen it all. I've hurt those who I meant the most to and the ones who meant the most to me hurt me in return. It's karma to perfection. I've had every emotion that the H can stand for. All of the pain, hardships, tears, and confusion become all too familiar. It's all situational depending on what we go through. But nonetheless, I've seen it all through my own experiences or vicariously through a friend in need. We take the actions and responses and take that into perspective and develop our own judgments to create a measuring stick of what not to do and when not to do it.

I feel like that I'm the real life Hitch at times. Well, there's actually a real life Hitch that the movie was based on (David Coleman) and maybe I'm just the Asian remix of him. I shouldn't take credit for being Hitch because I know that we all feel like this at some point in our lives. It's just a part of life and it makes us better people for it.

What makes me like Hitch? I'm knowledgeable with how to handle relationships for others. Understand the sensitivity of women and insensitivity of men. Understanding that nice guys finish last and how the game works on both sides of the table. Being the pursued/pursuer is all a mind game. So even when it's all spelled out to you, the knowing is only half of the battle. Even when everything I want is in front of me, I struggle with my own relationship(s). Guys are blind or too dumb to see the quality of the person in front of them. Again, this works both ways.

I enjoy being there for others. I've made mistakes and I've endured a lot to know how to help others benefit from my struggles. The other night, a friend chose to confide in me and tell me about their problem. With one or two sentences into the conversation, I was able to map out the whole issue and inform them on the problems/ misunderstandings from their perspective as well as the perspective of their significant other. In this particular scenario, it was the feelings, mindset, and confidence of the significant other that was damaged. It was like deja vu in my book, so I gave my input on how to fix things over time and helped them try to reestablish that bond and trust that used to be there.

In a discussion about this topic with another friend, I was told that I was like a fortune teller who could never tell my own fortune. This entry isn't a complaint or anything in that nature by any means. It's an acceptance. I know my role. To stay true to my words about wanting to make a positive difference for others gives me all of the satisfaction that I'm looking for.

“Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.”

Mar 22, 2010

The H is for ___ (Part 5 of 5)

The H is for Happy. What it means to be happy is to recognize and appreciate what you have. I don't know many people who can be at this phase so easily without going through at least one of the previous H's that I mentioned. It's being up after all your downs. There's no better feeling than being happy, whether it be genuine or just temporary. It's an accomplishment to be here because it's a sign of being able to overcome the problems and hardships. We look back and often wonder why we even hadn't gotten to this point sooner. Advice for being in this stage: Enjoy it while it lasts or hold on to it as long as you can. And if you fall away from it, knowing that you can always get back to it is half the journey.

Mar 21, 2010

Pandas Slideshow



A look back at our run to the championship. (accompanied by music of course...)

Mar 20, 2010

The H is for ___ (Part 4 of 5)


The H is for Hope.
Having hope is easy. Maintaining it is where it gets tricky. It's like seeing the light at the end of the tunnel but no matter how far you've driven, you're just not out that tunnel yet. However, seeing that light is what keeps you holding on. That's what hope is. After all you've endured, it just takes that one moment to bump you up to the next level. Patience is key. Believe it because I do (now).

EDIT: notice the picture I have for my blog, it's only a matter of time...

Mar 18, 2010

The H is for ___ (Part 3 of 5)

The H is for Heal. Healing is the hardest part of the cycle of emotions that we go through. It's like being in a boxing match and getting the piss beaten out of you. You sit there in your corner with defeat hanging over your shoulders. With the pain fresh on your mind, you ask yourself, 'where do I go from here?' In my experience, time is the only thing the helps you heal. We can try to speed it up but it just makes us go back to where we were when all we want to do is move forward.

Mar 17, 2010

John Mayer - Assassin (Live in NYC)

John Mayer's Battle Studies didn't hit me as quick as Continuum did back in 2006. Most people would have to agree. I've also heard that it's an album that you learn to like the more you listen to it. There are great tracks on it that have always stood out to me and the album as a whole is pretty good. When I say good, I mean TERRIFIC. Brian says I'm late to realize the quality of the album, which I am but at least I've had the album since its release date. One song that I can have on replay is Assassin. I first paid attention to the song when I saw JM in Nola last week. Maybe it was because of the timing of the concert or the beastly guitar solo that captured me. Whatever it was, I was sold on it. Below is a video of his performance of Assassin in NYC. Hopefully you can enjoy it as much as I did.




"I was a killer, was the best they'd ever seen
I'd steal your heart before you ever heard a thing
I'm an assassin and I had a job to do
Little did I know that girl was an assassin too."

Mar 16, 2010

The H is for ___ (Part 2 of 5)

In continuation of my blog series, the next entry of this 5 part series take a downfall.

The H is for Hurt/Heartbreak.
Hurting is simple. We sit there and endure constant pain. It can be physical, emotional, and mental. We find out that the truth hurts and lies make it worse. The question of 'when is this all going to end?' continuously runs across our mind.

Mar 15, 2010

You Got to Lose to Know How to Win



"I know I have my personal reasons for wanting this win tonight, but as a team, let's win this for each other. For the guys who've made it to every game. For the starters and also the bench.For Ryan Hill who went down in the first game. For the captains who helped me out when I became ill. For me who helped put this team together. For our girlfriends, wives, and ex's who had to deal with us playing ball several times a week for the past few months. Lastly, for the team we're playing who shouldn't have beat us last week. Play hard tonight. Play like champions." -My speech to the team


I'd like to take this time from the seriousness of finding happiness and write about how proud I am of my team for winning our first championship. This week has given me so much to be thankful for. I started to shift the focus from the 'thinking of you's' to the 'thinking of me's'. It feels good to be this way again. I've gotten the pleasure to turn an acquaintance into a friend, a great friend in fact. I've learned to appreciate my past for what it was and I know that I can smile when I think about it. It has definitely been a pleasure. So where am I headed now? My focus is now shifted to my first love, basketball, and last night's victory was a dream come true. My dream became my very own version of the Dream Team. It was such a long road from the day this team was built. It was frustrating at times with the mindsets of some of my teammates but overall, it was a great group of guys to be around. All season, I did what I had to do to try to keep everyone happy but in the championship game, I did what was best for a victory. I put the best personnel at the given situations and rallied 30+ fans to the game to help cheer us on which provided a high school type atmosphere that I really could learn to enjoy. The support from our panda nation who were at the game or there in spirit was phenomenal. It was a great way to go out and end our run as a team. It couldn't have been written any better with a Hollywood-type ending... it was a newly put together team and finding ourselves along the way through tough losses. Our best player goes down in the first game. Then, we lose to a team in overtime and make it to the championship only to play that same team again and finish strong with a win. Thank you all again for the support via Facebook and Twitter etc. I wish everyone could have been there for my biggest achievement of 2010 so far. With this championship, I feel like it's best to go out on top. It's a good time to retire the team and enjoy the bittersweet taste of victory than have that sour feeling we had when we lost at Vayla last year. Even if we would have lost last night, we all still would have came out as winners in my book.

Pandas YMCA (3-5)
Pandas Vayla (1-1)
Pandas Brec (4-6) and (9-3)*

Overall (18-14)
*BRABA Division 4 Champions
Congratulations guys!


Mar 12, 2010

What's in a Name? The H is for ___ (Part 1 of 5)

Lil Wayne is notorious for self-proclaiming himself with different identities. There's Mr. Make it rain, Mr. Shoot em down, Best Rapper Alive, Alien/ Martian, Fireman, Weatherman, and Weezy. His most popular name would probably be Weezy F Baby where he often refers to the F to stand for random words like Ferocious, Forensics, F'in, Featuring, Friends, Flame, Family, and Fans...

With the random things that I've been feeling and have gone through these past few months, I've decided to be a bit out the box and think like Wayne and let the H in my name stand for something more than the Huu that I was given.

Name: Daniel H. Nguyen

The H is for Him/Her One thing that seems to distract us from our course of finding happiness is a person of interest. This can be defined as someone who we allow to do us harm that no one else can. We give them the benefit of the doubt for the person they've become. This is also the same person who brings sunlight when our skies are gray. It's a bittersweet feeling. When things are good, they're great. It's an emotional high that we love to be apart of or envy from others. With this special person, we never really stay in one spot over time. Things go up or down. Thus, the emotional roller coaster begins.

In this series of entries, I'm going to take you through the many different meanings of what my middle name can stand for. Please check back for updates.

D.I.Y. Panda Rally Towel

So with our championship coming up this Sunday, I thought I'd take a few extra opportunities to help give my team the advantage to winning it all. I've rallied a bunch of friends together to come support, in our last game, some friends even showed up with their faces painted like pandas. It was great. To help show thanks for our great fans, I decided to make rally towels for the first 15 fans that show up to our game Sunday. It was a quick do it yourself project and costs under $10 for everything.



Step 1: got a white towel Step 2: use my Panda stencil that I made Step 3: spray paint black Step 4: voila! rally towel and 15 towels later...


Now we're off to the Ship!

Mar 11, 2010

Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday TuVy!! I just wanted to take some time to wish TuVy a happy 23rd birthday. She's one of the most down ass chicks you'll ever meet. It's always great seeing her and there's always a smile on her face. People tend to label me as the human jukebox but I definitely would have to hand that title to TuVy for her great taste in all genres of music. Follow her blog, as soon as you get the chance. Hope you enjoyed the JM concert :)

Mar 8, 2010

Feeling Nostalgic



I decided to post the Jimmy Fallon clip where Zack Morris himself, Mark-Paul Gosselaar, commits to the Saved By The Bell Reunion. For any fan who watched this show religiously, you'll find a great appreciation for it. Mark-Paul is hilarious in his role as Zack and all of the small references to the show take you back. From the big cell phone to singing Friends Forever from Zack Attack... this is definitely a clip to watch.








A Reunion For The Ages

With the unsuccessful attempt to reunite the cast of Saved By The Bell, Jimmy Fallon made my month last week by surprisingly reunited the cast of California Dreams. Most people may slightly remember the show since it was a Peter Engel production, but it never saw the success as the guys from Bayside High did. It was a brief reunion and I had already added most of the cast on Facebook already but it was great to see them in the national spotlight once again. Enjoy the clip of the show. I think I'd be just as excited as Jimmy to introduce the California Dreams...

Mar 4, 2010

Handmade/ Homemade vs. Store Bought

For so long I was able to express myself by giving gifts to people by purchasing something that reminded me of them the most. Just because it was something bought, it doesn't mean that it didn't come from the heart. For my friend's very long anticipated birthday, I decided to do something different. I thought I'd try going with a handmade and homemade gift versus something store bought. The idea was inspired by that person and their kind heart. With all that I've been given, I wanted to match just half of their creativity.

I guess I was in the "do it yourself" mind state. For their birthday, I decided to make a card and a cake. To add the Daniel effect, I upgraded the card into a scrapbook-type card and a regular cake to a fondant-wrapped cake. To make my stories short, I'll leave out the thought processes it took to get from a my initial idea to the finished product.

For the scrapbook, I took advantage of the slow hours during work that I normally used to text and Facebook/ Twitter and brainstormed themes for pages, haha. A quick trip to Target and Walmart covered the supplies like foam boards, card stock, glue, stickers etc. Went through and printed out pictures from the past and jotted down some notable memories and put that natural-born creativity I'm sure not even my friend thought I'd have. A few long nights and weeks of revising later, voila! we have a 12 page scrapbook celebrating a special day and great friendship. I'm unable to post the finished product but here are a few pictures of the first few steps in the scrapbook making process.




pictures: cut foam board. covering with card stock. pages laid out. adding pictures and such. finished product (intentionally blurred).

The cake wasn't as easy to do as I thought it would be. I had never messed with fondant before. I only saw it on Ace of Cakes or Cake Boss. So i went out and did a lot of research and asked a lot of questions. I even asked my friend that I was making the cake for but clever me made it come across as if the cake were for someone else. I came across a class that taught beginners to decorate with fondant and signed up for it. After 2 weeks of the 4 week class, I was ready. Ideas had been planned out and it's amazing that the cake looked exactly how I envisioned it by the time I was done.




pictures: original sketch. happy birthday banner. side view with edible image sheet music from "grief and sorrow". top view with piano ornament, drape, and panda image.

In the words of Chauncey Billups..."I normally don't drink my own kool-aid but..." I was proud of my work for both gifts. So proud that I wanted to give it a month in advance, how lame. However, one thing I'll never know is the reaction of these gifts. Maybe it's better that way. I'll always wonder if the cake tasted good? Was all the sentiment realized when going through the book? It's my new unsolved mystery in life. It was the two biggest projects that I ever put on myself. To take the effort and time to make these gestures for something even I was too blind to see or unsure about was a risk. Risk taken. Appreciation? Heart warming smile? I'll never know. I just hope that they'll see the rarity of a gesture like this or wonder if something like this will ever come around again.

P.S. Thank you to everyone on facebook who commented on my cake album and for expressing their opinions on it. It made my day. =)

EDIT*** To conclude by deciding who won the battle? Store bought won in the price category. Much more would have been saved by just picking up a cake and card. But the gesture and sentiment in a homemade gift outweighs any store bought product and wins by a total knock out. Only one judge can decide and that, we'll never know. So the bout remains on a split decision.

Mar 2, 2010

James Morrison f/ Nelly Furtado - Broken Strings



sad message but such a great song...

The Best Part of Waking Up



Ever since things have started to go well for me, I finally noticed this morning that one reason why my days tend to start off better is based on the way that I wake up. Most mornings, I hear my door squeak open somewhere between 5 or 6. It's soon followed by the annoying clawing of the side of my bed from my oldest dog, Charlie, trying to get my attention to put him on the bed. After he gets settled in next to me, my younger dog, Kobe, comes in and attempts to jump into bed with us but always finds himself unsuccessful so he settles for small barks to get my attention. I normally don't do anything until Charlie gets aggravated and stands at the edge of the bed and they exchange a conversation. Finally, I'll put Kobe in bed and everyone's happy and I get to go back to sleep until it's time for work. They're my boys. I love them to death and they're all I have and I love how they have each other when I'm not home.

Mar 1, 2010

Nice guys can finish FIRST (for once)

In a world where we tend to find that nice guys finish last, I'd like to take this moment to congratulate my buddy for being one of the few to finish first. He's a great person and someone I vouch for when it comes to his integrity, kindness, and strength of friendships. When it comes to relationships, I hope that it's always mutual when a person chooses to be with that special someone. It should never be more one than the other. Both should have the feeling of being lucky to have each others company. With this celebration of nice guys finishing first, it's also good to mention that it's great to see that there are some girls out there who'd rather not be with someone who treats them like crap. My friend has a great thing in the making and he's always known his time will come and I couldn't be more proud.