My friend brought up an interesting conversation with me the other day that I'd like to share and get feedback on. The question that started the talk was, 'is it possible for two good friends to fall for each other after knowing each other for a long period of time?' To give more details, a possible scenario would be two friends who were both off the market at the time and then sees the other go through breakups/ other relationships. Then while both are single and realized that they've both gone through similar situations and want the best for each other, they fall for each other in their own comfort. It's done in Hollywood and I've seen others go through it but they seem to be rare cases. In my experience, if the attraction is there from the get go, you get stuck in the friend zone.
[At this point, let me remind you that I'm single and obviously I have no credibility, =P]
Back to my topic, it sounds nice in theory but wouldn't you think that liking your friend is breaking the rules or stepping over the trust line? In my experience, if the feelings aren't returned, it ruins the friendship. So if one person is diggin the other friend, the thought of how much is the friendship worth to put losing it on the line. If both individuals feel the same way but never act on it because of the fear of breaking the rules, how will it ever go about? Of course we should live life and not be caught up on the small things. Don't go out looking for something, let it come to you... all those cliche sayings.
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